TRUST and loyalty took new forms. New meanings. New behavior!!!
This post today is about sharing my feelings, I am not out for pity, or sympathy... Just sharing a bit of me right now...with those of you who may be feeling this way too, to know you are not alone and to know that it is normal to be sad and to embrace it at the time and move on!
Now, Let's speak honestly...Almost each & everyone of us faced: shifted loyalty, trust issues, backstabbing, & above all..ended with a broken heart?! (and NOT just once or twice.. orfrom strangers or "acquaintances"), but from very dear ones!!!
After that the list went on.... my 1st crush, so-called best friends, parents, classmates, bosses & colleagues, & recently I added Facebook friends....!!!!
Now, Just so you would understand...I was raised Up & taught to stay quite...To CONSTANTLY justify or excuse other people's painful acts and behaviors towards me...not to speak out or face these people. It was & still is much easier for me to walk away from both the incidents & the causers... Than to actually face them!!!
"a character-flow in ME"
I always see people as sweet and nice. Why would they hurt ME if I'm treating them nice???
Unfortunately, most of these people are selfish in nature. Their ultimate goal in life is to please themselves..to achieve their personal goals and fulfill their hidden agendas. And if u happened to be in their way then they will approach you with a fake smile & the FRIENDSHIP Flag excuse!!!
But after all these years, & only recently, I learned that's called being abused!! Yes...when you allow others to keep hurting you with a mindset you either deserve it or look away because that's how their character is... then you are being abused!!!
I started speaking OUT!! .Apparently speaking OUT & being honest about your feelings is also a big NO & NOT acceptable to these people!!!
Ever since I lost so many people or as I like to call them..my so-called friends :)
These are quotes that sum up my thoughts right now!